Thursday, January 12, 2012

If you fall 100 times... get up 101 times!

Hey you!! Happy New Year!

I am back, it has almost been a year since I wrote anything and I apologize for not keeping in touch. It has been an interesting year for me. One goal I had for this blog was to share EVERYTHING with you guys, my success and my failures so hopefully you can learn something, and apply it in your own life.

so here is what has happened in a year...

A year ago, I went from quitting my job, having high hopes for success, to making a bad deal in real estate to going back to to work for UPS for couple of months. Then working for a moving company for $10 and then $13 dollars an hour and now back on the hustle. I can honestly tell you guys that i made a big circle in a year starting off the same I did last year lol. Success is 50% mental, and after all my plans weren't coming through and after losing money I began to doubt myself. I began to tell myself that maybe I am not meant to be successful... so I focus more and more on church. I basically left success aside to work more in my church. I kept telling myself that I messed up and that I was a failure for not succeeding,


Never let your outside environment affect your inner self. Believe who you are and who you want to become. STAY FOCUS!

Now to most people reading this it might sound like a whole year lost and a whole year full of mistakes...

But not to me.

After not accomplishing many goals that I had in mind I gained much more than anything I could have asked for. I found God in a deeper level. I can write a book on the blessings I have received this year. I became more humble and started volunteering to help people in need. In helping others I was also helping myself. I was starting to find myself. I realize the real reason why I really wanted to succeed, and that is to help people!  It has been a great experience.

So, I might have failed financially, but I have succeeded spiritually and mentally. Remember "Life is Beautiful, Everything else is a bonus or a lesson learned" - smug

I am ready to HUSTLE harder than I ever have, with the help of God, my family, my girlfriend and my new friends from church I WILL SUCCEED!

So if you feel down in your life or everything seems to be going wrong, GET UP!! and see what can you learn from it, if you can't do it on your own ask for help from positive people, I know i do : )

"Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need." Mat 6:33

Watch this video and hopefully it will inspire you to get up and keep moving!

Keep coming back for new and exciting posts...

Thursday, February 10, 2011

Knowledge is POTENTIAL power, ACTION is power!

                  Hey guys! I hope you guys are doing well, and staying positive and keep moving forward!

You guys are in charge of your LIFE

Sometimes, we do fall and start to think negative about our situations and ourselves, but we must push ourselves to not think that way. If you have difficulty thinking positive, then surround yourselves with positive people, people that support you and care about you, people that see another perspective of what you are seeing. I personally when I start to feel overwhelmed and feel like I cant succeed, I have people that get me back up. My family and friends are always there to help me stand back up and keep moving.
So, it is important to set that support system up. Also, know who your friends really are, those are the people that are always there for you!

In life, you are not measured on the amount of times you fall, but the times you get up!!

I am going to name two books that have influenced me in my life and hopefully you guys can read them and let me know what you think.

Choice Theory by: William Glasser MD

Guys, our lives consists of choices, if you are unhappy is because you chose to be!! You can change your mood any time you want. If you are in a bad relationship, I'm sorry to say it, but you chose to be. (Now, I know what you are thinking, "Milton that's dumb! I didn't choose to have a bad relationship" NO YOU DIDN'T, BUT YOU ARE CHOOSING TO STAY IN IT!!!

The Alchemist by: Paulo Coelho

This I have to say is one of my all time favorite books as of now. Great book about following your dreams and not giving up. It is about following your "personal legend." And sometimes you may not know all the answers at the moment, but you know your destination and you took ACTION on it. Guys, don't wake up 20 or 30 or 40 or 50 years from now and regretting g not following your dreams!!! I knew someday i wanted to have a blog and now I DO! and I am not a English major, so please excuse my grammar. (lol) As long as you get my message I'm OK with that. : )

I will give you more names of books in another blog, but try to read those and let me know what you think.
Email me with questions or comment or with what you are struggling with, I can try to help you guys out : )

So, my message for today is: 


We must build relationships with each other to help one another succeed and solve our problems.

REMEMBER: for every problem there are 10 solutions!

So, do not ever think that something is impossible to solve. surround yourselves with people that want to see you happy. If your significant other is always bringing you down then its time to reconsider your relationship. If you are not feeling happy at your job, then follow what you want! The point is to DESIGN YOUR LIFE!!!  The point is to be:

Thursday, January 20, 2011

You Have Control over your SUCCESS!!

Location: PG/Cheverly Hospital
Nurse enters the room

Nurse: "Hello Mr. Hernandez, how are you?"
Mr. H: no answer
Nurse: " Have you eaten anything Mr. Hernandez?"
Mr. H: "No"
Nurse: "You need to eat Mr. Hernandez, look! someone brought you Burger King, would you like some of that?"
Mr. H: "No"
Nurse: " Would you like me to feed you Mr. Hernandez?"
Mr H: "No"
Nurse: " Ok, Mr. Hernandez, What would you like?"


Mr. H: (with tears in his eyes) "I would like my Daughter back."

When I heard, "I would like my Daughter back", I have to tell you it broke my heart, because there is nothing that can bring her back. Sometimes there are things in life that we can't do anything about..

Ladies and Gentleman, Sometimes in Life, there are events that we do not have control over. Sometimes we lose someone close to us, or a major hurricane destroys a neighborhood, or in this case a major fire, that has killed a 9 year old girl.

 The message for today is that YOU have 100% control over your Success and your mindset. I don't care what color or shape you are, or what situations you are in or in what environment you grew up in, I am here to tell you that you can become successful and you can become a Millionaire! About 80% of Millionaires did not start out with money. Guys!! If you believe it in your mind that you can do it, I guarantee you can accomplish anything you put your mind to.

My goal in life is to be that proof, to be that example, to show you that anyone can do it. A lot of you guys are in better situations then most and are not using your resource to get ahead in in life.
 Never settle for less! 
Never get comfortable in life!

 I promise you guys and MYSELF that I will succeed and I will help as many people as I can to do the same.



3)     FEEL

4)      ACT

This blog today is dedicated to my distant cousin:

R.I.P Kimberly Hernandez

If you would like to read more about the story, Here is a link below:

Monday, January 17, 2011

The Beginning...

The Power of Belief


        Well, it has been 17 days since I quit my job. I would say things are going steady at the moment. I wanted to talk to you guys today about the  Power of Belief.

Earlier today, I started to think to myself, if my decision was the right choice. I started to almost doubt myself in working for my own account. I know that the hardest thing to do is eliminate your paycheck. My mind started to wonder and after a while I realize that I was debating against MYSELF.

Sometimes in life we start to doubt ourselves, we start to worry about our decisions and sadly we start to give up on ourselves. We stop believing in ourselves. And that is a major mistake.

I realize that I need to keep believing in myself no matter what. I am the designer of my life, and I shouldn't think about the things that can go wrong, but only the endless possibilities can go right! If you start to lose motivation, you must go back to your inner place where you get your motivation from. Sometimes your environment around you (News, negative friends etc.) can make you lose hope and take away your focus. You must stay strong and motivate yourself EVERYDAY.

Wake up and feel like a Champion!

Wake up and feel like you cant lose!

Wake up and be Grateful about everything you have in your life!

Everyday you should think bigger and ACT bigger. We must stay positive and do something to get closer to your goal. Set the bar higher and higher

I do not regret my decision to leave the 9-5, and yes the steady pay check is no longer, but that only makes me stronger. This decision is forcing me to start thinking creative, to start thinking outside the BOX, and to start seeing the world in a different way and your belief will become stronger than ever! You are not depending on your boss to give you a lousy check only to be disappointed every 2 weeks. You depend on yourself to bring in the money, and yes, it might sound intimidating at first, but i guarantee you, the feelings of self growth is very rewarding

My message for today is that sometimes we get off track a little bit. But we must get back on track and we MUST move forward. Some days its going to feel like its dark and cold, but we Must go back to our happy place and stay focus. Remember what your end goal is. NEVER doubt yourself, if you do not believe in yourself no one will!

Feel good, Be good, Do good


Be safe Everybody

Thursday, January 6, 2011

Visualize and DO IT!!

Hello Everyone,


I hope everyone had a great and safe New Year!! Today I wanted to talk to you about visualizing what you want to accomplish this year. 

Around this time, millions of people make "resolutions", they get pumped and excited and in about a month they go back to doing the same old bad habits they were trying to get rid of in the first place.

My advice is: 
                           FIRST: Visualize what you want to accomplish this year.

Take 15-30 minutes to yourself to sit down, close your eyes and think of the things you want to do, see yourself doing them and imagine how you will feel when you accomplish them; How proud you are going to feel. Imagine yourself working out or in a beautiful relationship.

                                   SECOND: Write it down.

Bring your thoughts and imagination to paper, so it can now exist. try to look at it everyday to remind yourself what you want to do.

                                   THIRD: Come up with a plan.

Many people fail their Resolution because they come up with a goal, but do not have a plan on how to accomplish it. What are you going to do EVERY day to get closer to your goals. Write it down also. It is the small steps that counts to get you to your destination.

                                 FOURTH: Link either pain or pleasure to your goal(s).

What truly drive us to do anything is either pain or pleasure. If you do not accomplish this goal, How would you feel? upset? Disappointed?Like a Failure? link this feelings to NOT accomplishing your goal and you will do anything to avoid feeling this way.
Or you can link pleasure to your goals. How good will it feel? like a Champion?? 

Design your life the way you want to live it! 

"I am a Champion! Greatest speech ever" Check it out

Until Next time, Remember to stay productive and Positive!
Well, get out there and do it!!!

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

It all starts in your mind...

A year ago, I began a quest to become a millionaire and this blog is about my struggles, my accomplishments, and my triumphs so other people can learn from my actions.

"Whatever the Mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve." -Napoleon Hill

strap yourself for the ride of your LIFE!! You will follow me in this great venture into leaving the 9-5 and becoming financially free!! But remember one thing, it all starts in your mind... coming soon.